What does this personality disorder indicate?
I have just started dating a 68 year old man. I visited his apartment. He has lived there for 4 years, and cannot decide whether to buy a home or condo, or what to do.
The house is a disaster! Bed never made, toilette bowl not flushed, boxes and stuff stacked up everywhere. Also, he does not own a TV, no home internet connection, no landline. He says he lives like this because he is close to work, and hasn't decided where he wants to live. I also must mention that the few times that I have met him, he has kept me waiting for 2 hours each time.
He has asked me to clean up his place (he will pay me) and look for him another place to live. Of note, he is clean, and well groomed, and seems to be very successful in his business. He is educated, friendly, good sense of humor, respectful. How can anyone live like this in 2008? What does this mean? I have never seen anything like it.