Ask Me Help Desk - Worrieing about stuff

Ok I don't know if you have read the part about me not seeing my GF a lot but many situations pop in my head... such as since I don't get to see her a lot what if she finds another guy?? Because its like she gets to be around every1else but me... and I'm so scared she will do something or hurt me and I wasted my time waiting for her... and I just tell me that just myself thinking stupid because of how the world makes things out to me... its all about having a hot GF with everything big boobs ETC... but idc about that... but I do think my GF has everything that guys wants or looking for in a girl... im scared maybe a guy will just come up and take her out of my arms... because since I don't get to be with her a lot... idk what she's doing all the time and stuff... but we've been together a year and 3 months... and I don't know what to do... I rele don't like going threw my days worrieing, worring if she's doing something... and people will say you need to trust her... I do trust her A lot but I no how people can be... previous relationships proved that to me... idk can anyone help me or say something to make me think in a different way... im rele happy I'm with her and all, but then there's that bad thinking or worrie still in the back of my head... I just feel like every guy wants her... and it all so goes back to were I don't think I'm good enough for her... can anyone help me?

How old are the two of you? The fact that her parents restricts her make me think that you are both minors. Her parents are concerned about the two of you being so serious and that will destroy her future. No matter what you say, it has been proven over the years that early premarital sex and pregnancy intrerrupts success.

Granted that you miss her, you love her but as of this time you have no control over things unless you have a good stable job and are earning good money to support babies. What are going to do with that? Study hard, be a young man with a good future. Show her parents that you are trustworthy who patiently respects and wait just for the best of their daughter. Now that's love.

If she wants you, she wants you. No shiny cars, amount of money or handsome man could take her away from you. Remember that so don't kill yourself overthinking.

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Originally Posted by Hunna55

Ok idk if yall have read the part about me not seeing my GF alot but many situations pop in my head...such as since i dont get to see her alot what if she finds another guy??? because its like she gets to be around every1else but me......and im so scared she will do something or hurt me and i wasted my time waiting for her... and i jsut tell me that just myself thinking stupid because of how the world makes things out to me...its all about haveing a hot GF with everything big boobs ETC.....but idc about that...but i do think my GF has everything taht guys wants or looking for in a girl....im scared maybe a guy will just come up and take her out of my arms...cuz since i dont get to be with her alot....idk what shes doing all the time and stuff.....but weve been together a year and 3 months....and idk waht to do...i rele dont like goign threw my days worrieing, worring if shes doing something...and people will say u need to trust her....I do trust her ALOT but i no how people can be...previous relationships proved that to me....idk can anyone help me or say somthing to make me think in a different way....im rele happy im with her and all, but then theres that bad thinking or worrie still in the back of my head....i jsut feel like every guy wants her....and it all so goes back to were i dont think im good enough for her......can anyone help me?

I'm 17 and she 15 I just turend 17 and she will be 16 in 12 days... and yes were minors but even we have many relationship issues lol

If she wants you, she wants you. No shiny cars, amount of money or handsome man could take her away from you. Remember that so don't kill yourself overthinking.

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Originally Posted by Hunna55

Ok idk if yall have read the part about me not seeing my GF alot but many situations pop in my head...such as since i dont get to see her alot what if she finds another guy??? because its like she gets to be around every1else but me......and im so scared she will do something or hurt me and i wasted my time waiting for her... and i jsut tell me that just myself thinking stupid because of how the world makes things out to me...its all about haveing a hot GF with everything big boobs ETC.....but idc about that...but i do think my GF has everything taht guys wants or looking for in a girl....im scared maybe a guy will just come up and take her out of my arms...cuz since i dont get to be with her alot....idk what shes doing all the time and stuff.....but weve been together a year and 3 months....and idk waht to do...i rele dont like goign threw my days worrieing, worring if shes doing something...and people will say u need to trust her....I do trust her ALOT but i no how people can be...previous relationships proved that to me....idk can anyone help me or say somthing to make me think in a different way....im rele happy im with her and all, but then theres that bad thinking or worrie still in the back of my head....i jsut feel like every guy wants her....and it all so goes back to were i dont think im good enough for her......can anyone help me?

Thanks... is just hard in this time and generation to not worrie... thanks a lot for helping me...

In 2004, Miss Russia bagged Miss Universe crown because of her winning answer. "What is your greatest challenged you ever faced?" she answered " Being positive at all times."

When you are starting to think negative, tell yourself "negativity, get out of my body!"

You like all adult humans, go through the same thing. When you aren't there, you worry, and think the worst about your partner. Some of it is concern because you care a lot. Mostly its insecurity, making you think the worst.

Its important to balance your life, with a lot of other things you enjoy, and make you feel good about yourself. Distance is a hard thing to handle for even the most mature adults, so don't let your mind play tricks on you, and make you see, and feel, the negative all the time. That's so self defeating.