Hey, I've been with my girl for 1 year and 3 months, but her dad is like so freaking strict to the maxium measure... We hardley get to see each other but we do just not a lot... and sometimes there can be a rele long period before we see each other, and sometimes I feel like giving up but my heart says no... and I no I can't help it my heart chose her. I love her to death but if you can't see your girlfriend is there rele a reason to be together? Am I wasteing my time? Should I wait for things to get better? There's so many things that make me just want to give up... and when I don't get to se her I get all depressed and down. I just need so advice on what shudi do? Wait it out for things to get better? Because people told me if you truly love her you will wait for her... but at the same time am I wasteing my time??

You are not wasting your time. You love her, stay with her, eventually I'm sure her dad will lighten up, and you will see each other more often. In fact you might start seeing her to often like I do a lot with my girl and sometimes get sick of each other.

How old are you two?? Sorry but the parents rule this one, and you have to play by there rules, or let it go.

If you love her play by her parents' rules for now. Don't let her go if you love her.

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Originally Posted by Hunna55

Hey, Iv been with my girl for 1 year and 3 months, but her dad is like so freaking strict to the maxium measure....We hardley get to see each other but we do just not alot...and sometimes there can be a rele long period b4 we see each other, and sometimes i feel like giving up but my heart says no...and i no i can't help it my heart chose her. I love her to death but if u can't see your girlfriend is there rele a reason to be together? am i wasteing my time? shud i wait for things to get better? theres so many things that make me just wanna give up...and when i dont get to se her i get all depressed and down. I jsut need so advice on what shudi do? wait it out for things to get better? Because people told me if u truly love her you will wait for her....but at the same time am i wasteing my time???

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You are not waisting your time, but just try to be supportive, I bet she is really hating her father at this moment in time, he will learn to trust you but isn't it what all dads do. He is just taking a little longer to accept his little girl now is starting to have her own life, that does not evolve around him.

Try talking to him, appeal to his good nature. Take him snooker or something let him see the real you

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And sometimes I feel like giving up but my heart says no...

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Go with your heart,what it's saying to you!! :)

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And when I don't get to see her I get all depressed and down.

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This is what you've to remember & what your heart is telling you. It's, of course,because you love her so much that,when you don't get to see her you get all depressed and down.

I would include her father. :) I'm sure you'll get along with him,eventually! :)

If you are wasting your time, NOBODY KNOWS. If you're both minors and she's still living under the parent's roof, she has to obey them.

If it ends up that the two of you won't make it say "Ces't La Vie" (that's life). You win some, you lose some but it's better that you at least try so you have nothing to look back.