Boyfriend Ashamed To Masturbate With Me On Camera.
Hello. First, some background information.
My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year. We are in our teens. It is a long-distance relationship. We talk daily using a microphone and webcam. We have yet to be together physically, because of financial issues. We take our relationship very seriously.
Now, on to my question.
For the past few months, we have been getting closer and more intimate with each other despite the distance. We have been using mutual masturbation as a means to let loose sexual tension from a lack of physical touch, but also to become closer.
Lately, however, he has been saying that he 'Didn't feel like it' when I suggest we masturbate together. It had been puzzling me until recently, when he confided in me that he is ashamed to masturbate on camera with me, and that it feels wrong to do it while I'm watching (Even if I am masturbating as well). I understand and accept how he feels, but I'm scared that perhaps this will drive a wedge between us. I'm not going to force him to do it, but I think, if we can get past this, it will open up another door for us. Does anybody have advice on what would be the best way to help him get past this? Thank you, and I appreciate any help. Also, if any of you have had similar experiences with me, I'd love to hear them.