Girl feels bad about sexual experiences
What are your guy's thoughts on this: Basically I've been "seeing" this girl (we are both 22) now for around 6 months. We really haven't done much other than makeout. I really like her and want to date her and according to what she says she wants the same thing. However she says she's not ready right now as she feels her life isn't in a position that she'd be able to contribute to a relashipship. Other than that we do everything a boyfriend/girlfriend would do. I feel really good we can be so close emotionally and have none of this based on sex. However I DO like sexual contact and I do crave more. She says she does as well but she resists all the time (I'm not sure why). A few days ago things really got heated and while we were making out and she ended up half naked. She REALLY seemed to be liking it and I was feeling her all over. But after the fact she told me how bad it made her feel and that she really felt bad. (she's not a virgin and has done stuff like this in the past with other guys so it's not a new thing for her) This makes me think a) she either has some underlying "issue"... possible abuse, b) why was she able to do this stuff with other guys on more than one occasion but not me? c) if she doesn't like this now will she ever? We have known each other for 2 years and in the past 6 months is when things have moved to a new level. This who situation makes me feel terrible as I REALLY do like her a lot. I could pretty much say I've fallen in love with her. Any opinions are appreciated. Thanks