Only wants to do what he likes

Hi, eli813!

Have you spoken with your husband about your concerns?

Thanks!

Yes I have, and it seems like he does not care about how I feel. I think he is very selfish, because he always wants to do what he likes.

We are only hearing your side. How long has this been going on? Do you only suggest activities that you would enjoy? Do you cop an attitude when you do things that he wants to do?

Tell him you want to do more things, ask him if he does. Ask him about things he would like to do, maybe things he's always wanted to do. See what he says, maybe not just do what you want to do (if that's what is happening), try and compromise. Give it a go tell us the outcome :)

I have to admit that your post "summary" is pretty funny and I had to laugh.

Go out with the girls until he decides to compromise and have fun with you! Have you tried talking to him about it?

What a perfect oppurtunity to do the things you enjoy without him, and be happy because you can.

No reason you can't do the things you like, right? You're a grown woman.

It would be 'nice" if he shared your interests and participated, but it's not required. Just go have fun, don't apologize. Always invite him to what you PLAN to do officially, but don't ask permission.