From my recent threads I started talking to this guy ( I have known him for 6 yrs now )he was interested in me for awhile he got my # from his sister.. I didn't pay much attention to him since I was getting over a break-up. I heard from his sister & his friends that he couldn't stop talking about me so then I gave him a chance we talked/texted everyday for a 1 1/2 months... things got intimate between us but we both talked & said we should remain friends because he doesn't want anything serious now (he just got out of a long relationship)... 1 night I was drunk & I gave him an attitude because he was ignoring me not the same guy who would always hang around me... since then things have not been the same... I probably drove him away... I guess what annoys me is I have to see him @gatherings since we have mutual friends & I still like him & wonder why he lost interest in me... it could be he doesn't want to hurt me since we already slept together & he knows I am not into casual sex or the chase is over because I give it up...

What sucks is everyone asks me about him because they knew he had something for me... can he get those feelings back for me?

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can he get those feelings back for me?

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Having a bad day, huh?? Understandable, and one thing for sure, right now his actions are clear and that's what you deal with. We often have this question while we are trying to cope with our feelings but as you heal, we won't have to ask.

Forget the false hope your looking for. Reality is, what it is.

Yea having a bad week.. I just feel this always happens to me... when I start to really like a guy either he loses interest or something is wrong w/him or I do not like the guy that likes me... lol my ex who I adore has major drinking problems & I can't picture a future w/him... though this guy's actions are very clear to me I just question WHY ME... lol

I will be OK I am trying to work on myself & what I want... before I start a new relationship...