I just got into a relationship with a boy who I like a lot and want to be with. But I'm also really really independent, and desperately need alone time. He's kind of the opposite and wants to see me all the time.

I am also not sure if I can handle a boyfriend because I am shy and nervous and suffer from depression so I always feel like I make a mistake

Is it worth it?

Communication is the key to any relationship. So you should talk to him and let him know your feelings.

And take it all very slow at the beginning.

I also agree with the talking about it, and lay your cards out, and get an understanding between you, which means be willing to compromise.

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Originally Posted by meecy12

I just got into a relationship with a boy who i like a lot and want to be with.

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Hey,"meecy12" that's a very positive remark to make :)

You're at a new [and very happy] phase just now,with this relationship
I'm sure that your positive outlook in life,will serve you well.

Sure you need alone time [that's fine! ] Every healthy relationship has that.
Just be aware that your boyfriend would also like [and need] to see you,once in a
While :D

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Originally Posted by meecy12

i just got into a relationship with a boy who i like a lot and want to be with. But i'm also really really independant, and desperately need alone time. He's kind of the opposite and wants to see me all the time.

i am also not sure if i can handle a boyfriend because i am shy and nervous and suffer from depression so i always feel like i make a mistake

is it worth it??

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I I think that you should give it a try. If you think that it is getting over wlehming then talk with the guy and see if you guys could set up an agreement.