Originally Posted by Romefalls19
If this is the wrong area, please move it. Thanks
Ok here is the situation. My girlfriend has 2 kids by another guy from a previous marriage, they have been divorced for 2 years. Well her and I are living together with the girls(ex is in rehab) and we are curious how to handle the grand parents situation. They are his parents, which are divorced and both remarried. She was living with the grandmother until she was kicked out, they both claim they want to be in their grandchildrens life, which we are ok with. Here's the problem, she works friday and saturday nights and that's when they would see them. One would take them Friday night and the other on Saturday night. She would be required to drop them off and pick them up from each place, totalling about 80 miles in a weekend. She is struggling to make ends meat now. What we are afraid of is the grandparents saying she is pawning the girls on them over the weekend.
We have thought of 2 options to this situation.
1. We send a polite text asking how they would like to rework the visitation in the way that they pick up the girls from the other and we pick them up at that place on Sunday.
or
2. We let them contact us about seeing the girls, as to have documented proof that they are asking to see the girls rather than just assumming this is what they want. So if things get ugly, which we think they will, they can't go to a judge claiming we pawn them off every weekend.
Any ideas? or other options