How do I increase my sex drive?
When me and my husband were dating, we used to have sex for hours. It was great and everything was fine. Now that we are married, for some reason it went down. Well I always had issued with getting turned on or getting “in the mood”. For some reason, I don’t want to have sex as often as before. Also, its really hard for me to even get open to want it. I mean my husband doesn’t try to get me in the mood, but when he does, it does nothing to me. But the thing I don't understand is that, if I think of other people or other sexual things, I get turned on and want to do it there. Don’t get me wrong, my husband is attractive and very hot but I just don’t know. I know it mght be lack of sleep but it wasn’t an issue before so why now?? I just want to know how can increase my sex drive? I want to be able to have sex with my husband like I did before. He doesn’t please me mentally or show me any love or affection before the we decided to do it. I don’t know what can I do? Will taking birth control pills help increase me wanting sex?