Originally Posted by wizzkid89
Yeah fred has pretty much got it down, you hit her really fast with the whole love approach, you have to understand another person's view point of that when some random day you are being told you are loved by one of friends so it's a little unsettling. But it's good news for you that she continues the relationship with you, in my mind it shows some kind of interest, so at least she wants to maintain the friendship. It would be a good idea to go out again, just the two of you, no group dates though because your past that point and your trying to develop the relationship. What you want to do is put the ball in her court and have her be the aggressor. For this entire relationship you have instigated everything, the presents, the talking, the dates and what not. What you need to do is get her to make choices, she is probably at little flustered and just going along for the ride. Ask her to go to the movies, then at the end say "We should do this again." Let her know your interested in doing it again, but don't invite her out, you have to let her come up to you and ask to go to the movies, what that does is it makes her make a decision that she wants to be with you and you will be less confused when she starts to make a few choices in the relationship, and her intentions won't be as blurred as they are know. Also you will find out how interested she is in you. So remember you can ask her out, but eventually she will have to pull her own weight in this relationship.
