OK I'm 18 and I've been with my GF for 14 months and we don't have sex often but when we do have sex it isn't the greatest thing... she complains about a numbness and sometimes it burns and she says its uncomfortable. So I was wondering if there was any solutions to these problems.. anything I could do differently? I was thinking that maybe I had to make the sex more romantic for her so its more then just sex but I don't know what to do and I'm afraid shell leave me because of these complications.