OK I'm 18 and I've been with my boyfriend for about 14 months. He's my first and for some reason when we have sex I don't really feel it. I just wanted to know what was wrong and if there's anything we could do to make sex better for me.

Hi I'm 23 and don't feel it either and never have, maybe on some occasions but that's when we end up in positions you couldn't emagine ha ha. It works for me get yourself in some tight or funny positions like kind of crossing your legs when lying down its tighter and you feel it more as for pleasure no idea mate me and you both are in the same boat I've tried everything maybe its just one of those things.

You don't feel him inside you? Or you don't feel it stimulating you?. :)

Or both??

Hello Young Ladies:

This isn't a physical problem. It's an experience problem. To be specific - you don't have any.

You don't feel anything because the area that needs to be stimulated is your clitoris. YOU probably know that. Show your boyfriend where it is, show him how you like to touch it yourself, and ask him to do the same thing. He could even do it with his tongue. I'm sure you'll feel THAT.

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Like I feel him inside me but I don't really get the full feeling of sex... I mean I feel the foreplay but once it come to actual intercourse I don't really feel it

In a previous post you were a boy now a girl?

I'm a girl... my boyfriend is a boy. He posted the boy one... I posted the girl one... obvious?

No. He should have his own account!

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like I feel him inside me but I don't really get the full feeling of sex... I mean I feel the foreplay but once it come to actual intercourse I don't really feel it

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You don't feel anything because the area that needs to be stimulated is your clitoris. YOU probably know that. Show your boyfriend where it is, show him how you like to touch it yourself, and ask him to do the same thing.

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Id try this first... if it still doesn't work get some of that KY his/hers lubricant that could help things along...
A lot of women have this problem and don't talk about it so the just continue having "bad" sex... The best way to have better sex is communication... like seriously...