Help! I don't know what to do. I've been dating this guy for over a year. He is a nice, sweet guy and I love him a lot. We have done a lot together, travelled, etc. He's met everyone in my life... parents, family, friends, some co workers, and I have not met anyone in his. He's been married before and has been divorced for 10 yrs and has 3 grown kids with his ex. In the 10 yrs since, I am the longest relationship he has had. He is also quite a bit older than I am.
So we seem to have hit a rough patch. He says I don't make him feel special and I'm choosing to ignore some of the things he has said to me. He seems to be preoccupied with my ex, whom I dated a few years ago, and has asked me a lot of personal questions which I have uncomfortably answered. I'm trying to save us from what seems like the impending break up, because I love him. Guess I'm trying to learn the lesson before I make it... does that make sense? Anyone been here before... out in the relationship abyss, not sure what to do, where to go or how to fix this.