We were together 5years and have 2 young children together.I suffer with deppression and that came between our realationship,I always took things out on him and would always finish it and get back together because I was so confused and low,I cheated on him twice of which he knows about and forgave me but this time I finished it because I listen 2 other peoples advice and now he won't come back because I've hurt him too much.he has gone straight into another realationship with a girl that has 2 children 1 being a new born.he won't help me with the children and will only see them on a Sunday he is always being horrible to me and they are both always rubbing it in my face them being together,I've begged him back and told him it will be different and il change but he ses he hates me and don't love me or have feelings for me anymore.ive tried giving him space but its hard when we have children together.ive told him I will wait for him to come back and il always love him but it just makes him more angry.I know he is hurting and angry and I know I've done that.its true you don't know what you got till its gone! does he really not love me?is there any chance I will get him back?please help me!

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Originally Posted by baby girl xx

we was together 5years and have 2 young children together.i suffer with deppression and that came between our realationship,i always took things out on him and would always finish it and get back 2gether because i was so confused and low,i cheated on him twice of which he knows about and forgave me but this time i finished it because i listen 2 other peoples advice and now he wont come back because ive hurt him to much.he has gone straight into another realationship with a girl that has 2 children 1 being a new born.he wont help me with the children and will only see them on a sunday he is always being horrible 2 me and they are both always rubbing it in my face them being together,ive begged him back and told him it will be different and il change but he ses he hates me and dont love me or have feelings for me anymore.ive tried giving him space but its hard when we have children together.ive told him i will wait for him to come back and il always love him but it just makes him more angry.i know he is hurting and angry and i know ive done that.its true u dont know what u got till its gone!!does he realy not love me?is there any chance i will get him back?please help me!!

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Sorry about your relationship, but my experience is let it go, if you need support take him to court, but he not in love with you no more you cheated 2 times, 3 will be next. You need to move on, time will heal, believe me time is hard but later you see what u wasted time for. Next relationship base it on your heart not emotions.

What do you expect when you constantly treat someone badly. Sorry that's not love, nor sharing, and caring, its cruelty, and he would be a fool to comeback to you, no matter what you say, as why should he believe you?

Get your act together and know you got exactly what you deserve. If that doesn't motivate change, I really don't know what to tell you.

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Originally Posted by talaniman

What do you expect when you constantly treat someone badly. Sorry thats not love, nor sharing, and caring, its cruelty, and he would be a fool to comeback to you, no matter what you say, as why should he believe you?

Get your act together and know you got exactly what you deserve. If that doesn't motivate change, I really don't know what to tell you.

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No because I do love him more then anyone knows,I know I've done wrong but I was confused and he wasn't perfect in the realationship either,we have a lot of commitment and a lot to lose.ive had a very bad up bringing and bad life all together which hasn't helped me deal with my confusion!I know what I have done is wrong and just want to put that right a family is always worth fighting for!

If he isn't willing, your wasting your time, but he may enjoy watching you beg. Don't add more bad behavior, to what you already have done, as you had a chance to show your feelings without the negative impulses, and behavior. Your background doesn't excuse you one bit.