Okay, so I just starting dating this guy, and we have been intimate a few times, well I guess more than a few. Well sex seems to last about an hour, which I am def. not complaining, but he can never get off. And I thought at first it was because he was nervouse, but then he warmed up and became more open. Well he has had problems with relationships before, so he is used to using the computer as a visual aide. So after about an hour, he heads into the other room to finish on the computer... I am so lost. I don't know what I can do to help him. Please if any guys have the same problem, or can relate in anyway, or give me tips on what I can do, please let me know!
THANKS!

Welcome to the wonderful world of Porn addiction. Your current boy friend is addicted to his porn and self gratification. There is no way around it. Unless he is ready and willing to seek professional help, there is nothing you can do.

Its because... masturbating is too predictable. He knows just when exactly he will reach an orgasm. You have to teach him and be patient. With you he can appreciate sex with a real person, he may actually find out the meaning of the word SPONTANEOUS. If you really enjoy being with him, then you will have to talk, talk and more talk. Talk him out of watching porn by showing him YOU CAN BE HIS PORN QUEEN.

I have to agree with 450donn... Somthing is off there and he may need to get help...

Don't get me wrong, I love porn as much as the next 24 yr old guy, but when my fiancée comes to me in a happy mood she's MUCH more fun than a computer screen...

Yep, exactly what I get laughted at on here all the time for warning about the dangers of porn and the issues of too much masturbating.

He is too used to "his own hand"

1. Get rid of the porn on the computer since it is a obvoius issue for having proper sex.

2. he needs to cut out masturbation between sex encounters.

He also as noted is having other issues, since he is making choices and the computer wins?

You can't help with his problem, and don't make it your problem. Next time he runs for the computer, go with him.