Hello,
I have been in a two year relationship with my boyfriend. I know deep down that he is the one, and that I want to marry him one day. The past year we have been fighting about the same issues- he says I'm too clingy and he has a hard time communicating with me. Whenever we have fought in the past, he would drop me off home and wait until the next day to discuss it, or we just act like nothing ever happened. I know I am clingy, but its because I'm so afraid to lose him- (I lost a guy prior to him and it was very hard on me). I love him more than anything. He broke up with me on Sunday but was crying and didn't want to do it. He just told me he doesn't know what else to do because we have the same issues come up all the time. He then went to a mutual friends house and cried that he made a mistake and regretted it. Later in the week I confronted him and asked if we could make it a break or try again. He said no, then reconsidered. He then said he wanted to think about it. When we talked he said he doesn't want to lose me, that he loves me and that he is not looking for another girlfriend. He just said he had no time to himself when he was with me (he likes alone time) and he had no time to play his music or to even go to the bathroom without me around. I know I am really clingy , I just don't know how to change it. He then said he wanted to make it a break, and that in two weeks we will sit down and try to work it out. Is he telling me the truth? His brother just got engaged so I'm wondering if that scared him into thinking he might have to marry me and he's not ready. Anyhow, what should I do? Give him this time or talk to him? Do you think that its because of my clingyness? Or is that an excuse?:confused: