Where do I turn to protect my adopted kids.
I am a mother of four. There adoption was final a year and a half ago but they have been with me for five years (the baby's whole life). They were a sibling group and I knew their biological mother in passing. She is bipolar with overexuberant phyco tendencies with fourteen convictions of child abuse on her. Not to mention assult to an officer, domestic violence and many drug charges. Both of my son's have fetal alcohol syndrom, and add/adhd. My oldest is legally blind due to her drug/ alcohol use while pregnant.
Well to cut to the chase they have not seen this woman for almost three years. Their ages currently are 11, 10, 5, 4. Yesturday, they were approched at school by their biological cousin. My 10 year old daughter was handed three letters addressed to the three oldest and told...
"Do not show these to Aubrey (my first name), and give your responce to me."
Well my brave little girl gave these letters to me and I read them. They all stated pretty much the same thing.
"I love you, I am your real mother. Please tell Ms Aubrey that you want to see me. I think about you all the time. Send me a letter and pictures please. Love your mother A."
Of course after reading these letters, I rush to the school to see what I can do. The school tells me... nothing. Without a protective order then they can not keep a child away from another child. I get it, I do. I have never hid the fact that they were adopted and never will. I went through YEARS of counseling to help my older two because they remember everything this woman did to them. They were finally starting to lead a normal life but now they are distraught and it has rehashed so many bad memorys for them.
What can I do to protect my kids from this woman?