Hi guys..

I have been broke up with my ex for 3 months now and she, a couple of weeks ago declared that she loves me still and had made a mistake breaking up with me... she has been on holiday since and we are going to meet up and 'talk' about us and everything.

She had a fling with another guy in between us and that will prop up in conversation when we talk.. question is... how do I impress her and make her want me more than she did before?? And, how do I tell the signs that she really wants me bak and isn't just playing games??

Help appreciated guys, thanks

You can't make her want you it doesn't work like that I'm afraid. All you can do is be yourself. I would suggest that you just play things by ear, don't expect too much and don't completely put yourself out for her. You guys will need to take things slow and from my experience girls are put off by guys who come across as over eager. If she really wants you back then she'll do everything in her power to make sure you know it. If I were you I'd be pretty suspicious though, three months isn't a long time to get over someone if you do truly love them and she's already had a fling? Hmm... make sure you're not the fall back guy.

EDIT - just checked out some of your previous posts, dude it sounds as though your just clutching at straws here. Bury this and move on, you'll have nothing but drama to look forward to with this girl, and believe me that's no fun!