Just like many teenage girls, I dress up and model or dance in mirrors. Now that it has been summer vacation, I do this almost daily. Doing this raises my self-esteem about the way I look. But it also causes a dilemma. Doing this modeling is making me obsessed with the way I look. In one of my previous posts, I wrote about how when I like a boy, I'll avoid him if I think I look ugly at the time. I also said that I'll constantly look in the mirror to see if I look good around him. This is a problem because I often shy away from boys I like because of the way I look. I am too obsessed with myself!

Anyway, do you think this mirror thing I do is the reason why I am so stuck on my looks and myself? Do you think if I stopped doing this, I'd be less obsessed with looks?

Definitely.

Stop looking in the mirror. Maybe volunteer with a group that helps out mentally or physically disabled kids. This may get you some perspective on what life is really all about. And remember this there is nothing uglier then a self obsessed person.

You know what I am going to say, right?

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Originally Posted by avaanstar

Just like many teenage girls, I dress up and model or dance in mirrors. Now that it has been summer vacation, I do this almost daily. Doing this raises my self-esteem about the way i look. But it also causes a dilemma. Doing this modeling is making me obsessed with the way i look. In one of my previous posts, i wrote about how when i like a boy, I'll avoid him if i think i look ugly at the time. I also said that I'll constantly look in the mirror to see if i look good around him. This is a problem because i often shy away from boys i like because of the way i look. I am too obsessed with myself!

Anyways, do you think this mirror thing i do is the reason why i am so stuck on my looks and myself? Do you think if i stopped doing this, I'd be less obsessed with looks?

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Looking in the mirror can be additing
But everything's mental it's like if you have a pimple
If you keep looking at it in the mirror
It will seem bigger even though it's exactly the same
It's like with you you think you look ugly at
Times when you can look gorgeous it's all mental
By the way you are a pretty young lad. Though. And it's okay
Because you are still growing and your body still hasn't finished developing
And if you care so much about how you look in front of a guy
They will notice you feel self cautious and might feel awkward around you
And if the guys doesn't like the way you look
Then your looking the wrong direction.
Thiers always someone for everybody
So I say good luck
And hope you take my advice
And put the mirror down lol <3