Hi, I don't know what to do, currently I'm married but I'm starting to love my ex again we had a baby togther and I can't control how I feel please help

How old is your child and how long have you been married?

I know that you can't control how you feel which has to suck but you got married to your husband and have made promises to him to always be honest. In my opinion you need to talk to your husband before everything gets out of control because not everyone is going to win in this situation and things will only get worse

An ex, is an ex for a reason... enough said!

He is seven and been married for 4 years

Thanks for reminding me AKEZ, but I left him for wrong reasons, and I realized I rushed into things and it looks like I'm paying for it now... we still love each other... but things are so complicated... help... I'm going mad I don't know what to do...

I gotcha:cool: perhaps your situation is different. This is difficult! What makes you think your ex, might feel the same way? And how do you know he just wants you because someone else has you... that type. What about your husband? Doesn't he make you happy?

We talk on the phone, msn, Facebook or we even meet up sometimes.. he say he still cares and love me... can't complain about my husband he is a wonderful guy and sometimes I feel like I don't deserve him...

Akez where are you? Please help me...

Id have to say something else is going on.. you've been with your husband 4 yrs, and nothing has been a result of you straying away from the marriage.. of course you and the ex care for each other you have a child together... LOL, did I just say that. I have a child and could care less about my ex... your question is how to get over an ex right?

1. Take him off the pedistal for which you've found him so great
2. Get Closuer
3. Don't Contact him - yes, that's right no Facebook
4. Exercise your new found love for your current family

Hey... its easy said than done my dear... its not going to be easy for me ohhhh but I guess I asked how to get over him... and so I have to really try my best and take one step at time... see how it goes... wish me all the best... heyyyyyyyyyyy

What's life all about ehhheyyyyyyyyyyyyyy

Thankz anywayz...

If you stick to just working in the interest of your child, and stop dating each other, the feelings will pass. Stay focused on your marriage, not your past.

Feelings are normal, as long as you don't act on the ones that can cause problems in our life.

If you are not happy in your relationship you won't be happy for the rest of the time you spend together. You gota do what you got to do.

I'm in the same situation as you. My daughter is 11 and I've been married a year. I still love my ex and I love my husband. When I start wanting to go back with my ex I try to do some soul searching. No matter how much we love each other there is a reason he is my ex. Your husband now has chosen to love you and your son. Always move forward never go back. :o I know that sounds hard because you do love him. Ask yourself this. What was the REAL reason you two split up? Be honest with yourself. I always made excuses for why we split up but the truth is, it was the right choice. Sometimes it's better to just be friends.

Thanks for ua advices... they are great... atleast I know I'm not alone.. I'll try and apply it...