Is it better to love or be loved? Can you learn to love someone as much as you did when you " fell" in love before? Is it worth settling for a comfortable situation if you have waited too long to fall in love again? Doe everyone fall in love multiple times; or do we only get 1 or two shots? Does the media promote a farce that it is easy to find new love when one ends, or is it really possible?

Just would like to hear some outside opinions:)

It is only better to love and be loved boh at the same time, anything else is a lot less. And life can be OK for comortable if you are both OK with it.

But you don't fall into it, you fall into lust, you fall into desire, love grows over years

There is not a set number of times you can fall in love. However, we often think we are in love when we are not. The faster and harder we fall, usually the faster and harder it falls apart. Real love takes time to grow.
And both loving without return or being loved when you don't love back are bad situations.