How to deal with a break up of 7 years. IS HE RE BOUNDING
I Have Been In A Relationship For 7 Years. We Have Lived Together For 3 Years. Through Out Our Relationship We Have Had Many Heated Arguments Where We Have Split And We Both Thought It Was Over. We Always Seemed To Find One Another Again. In February He Purposed.
Recently At The End Of June We Got Into A Real Heated Argument And He Had Asked Me To Leave His House And He Called Off The Wedding Saying That We Argued Too Much And He Felt That I Couldn't Amount To The Women Of His Expectations.
We Had Parted Ways And I Had Decided That This Time Thing Were Serious. I Knew That In Order To Repair Things We Would Have To Go Through Serious Counselling.
I Left Him To Be And Go Through The Emotions Of Us Being Apart In Hopes That He Would Have Found Himself And Come Back.
3 Weeks Had Passed And Still We Were Unable To Communicate Clearly About Our Break Up. I Had A Gut Instinct That Something Was Different This Time Around... So I Began To Investigate Further.
I Found Out That Within 1 Month Of Our Breakup He Was Already Seeing Someone Else. He Had Her Already In The House In Which We Lived In With All Our Belongings. The Punch To This Whole Story Is That The Girl He Chose Was A Rreally Good Family Friend who knows that we were engaged and she knows that we broke up 1 month prior.(desperate?) So Meaning That Even If We Could Get Things To Work Out I Would Have To Suck Up A lot Of Pride knowing that I would have to see her at functions. He didn't even get sad about he was just angry and then he went on. I have pleaded with him to give himself time before continuing this relationship with her but he continues to see her. With her in his life he will just forget how much he did love me when we were good. But it seems he already forgot the love he had for me.
He Says That He Did Nothing Wrong As He Broke Up With Me 3 Weeks Prior To Him Dating Her So Its Not Cheating. I Feel So Hurt. I Can't Believe He Could Just Forget Everything And Just Go On. Did He Even Deal With The Break Up.
Is This Just A Rebound? Should I Even Bother Wih Him? Someone Help!!