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  • Aug 22, 2008, 05:13 PM
    xxmissconfusedxx
    I told him I was done but.
    I only said it outtta anger because I have not heard from in 3 days but he said ummm okay its cool. I really want him back but I do not know how about doing this I explained I said it out of anger and that I really do like him and all he said was all right... What do I do?
  • Aug 23, 2008, 05:15 PM
    N0help4u
    Ask him why he gave up on you so easily... ask him if that is all the more interested he is in you that all he can say is okay and then walk away. If that is all you meant to him I think maybe you are wasting your time on him anyway and should maybe find somebody else that cares. But learn not to say rash things and not expect it to end up biting you in the butt. Next time when you are upset actually talk things through instead of giving out absolutes cause people will often just take you up on what you say whether it is what you meant or not.
  • Aug 24, 2008, 01:51 PM
    xxmissconfusedxx
    When I call him he never answers. And I deleated him off my Yahoo so I never know when he is on. I just want him back
  • Aug 24, 2008, 03:40 PM
    jrsg
    I agree with n0help...
    You should try everyway possible to get to him, and apologize. See why he was so quick to just end it too, and move on from there.

    But you can't just say things, go back in time, erase them, and move on. If nothing else good comes out of this, at least you learned your lesson. Don't make the same mistake twice.

    I really hope this turns out for the best for you, and good luck.
    Let us know how everything goes.
  • Aug 24, 2008, 05:48 PM
    Homegirl 50
    Did he explain why he had not contacted you for 3 days? Maybe your anger was justified and now you're feeling bad because he acted as if he does not care one way or the other.
    You might want to ask yourself if this guy is worth it.
    If you have apologized and he says "cool" what's the problem? Is he still not contacting you? If so, maybe that should tell you something.
  • Aug 24, 2008, 05:52 PM
    jakenkim
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by xxmissconfusedxx
    I only said it outtta anger because i have not heard from in 3 days but he said ummm okay its cool. I really want him back but i do not know how about doing this i explained i said it out of anger and that i really do like him and all he said was alright...What do i do?

    You need to ask the Lord Jesus into your heart. Put Him first and worry about your love life later.
  • Aug 24, 2008, 06:01 PM
    Homegirl 50
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by jakenkim
    You need to ask the Lord Jesus into your heart. Put Him first and worry about your love life later.

    With all due respect, if this young lady knows nothing about Jesus, asking him into her life will mean nothing.
    Try and answer her question first. Meet her where she is. I think that is what Jesus would do.
  • Aug 24, 2008, 07:08 PM
    jrsg
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by jakenkim
    You need to ask the Lord Jesus into your heart. Put Him first and worry about your love life later.

    How about she learn to control what she says? Learn to think before she talks? Learn think before she acts? No?

    Again, I respect your religious views, but I think more than accepting Jesus into her life needs to be done to help her.
    Sorry, but I have to respectfully disagree with that piece of advice.
  • Aug 24, 2008, 10:19 PM
    xxmissconfusedxx
    Well he confirmed today that I want nothing to do with his no good sorry behind. Thanks for all of your advice.
  • Aug 24, 2008, 11:00 PM
    pimp_mah_alpaka
    I know this conversation help thing is probably over, but I do enjoy giving advice whether its over or not.

    Anyway, my answer to your problem would be don't waste your time with him. If he doesn't really care about what it all then he was obviously playing along. But yeah, don't go along with his games

    hope that helps your already helped question (^^,)
  • Aug 25, 2008, 07:44 AM
    Homegirl 50
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by xxmissconfusedxx
    Well he confirmed today that i want nothing to do with his no good sorry behind. Thanks for all of your advice.

    I figured it would go this way from the beginning.
    I wish you well.

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