I am 33, I have not had contact with my birth mother for over 10 years. Was put into foster care in the 6th grade and my mother was still in my life for many years. Then one day, in my 20's she fell off the face of the earth. I even hired a PI to find her and had no luck, he even gave me my money back because he felt so bad for not being able to help me. He said its difficult to find people who don't want to be found. Does anyone have any advice on other routes I can take?

Well that is a hard one lol what do you think about that well this is what I think for one you will find them easy because I is simple go to there school and scerch

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Originally Posted by tylerknight

go to there school and scerch

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Go to their school? This person is probably in her 50s I'm sure she doesn't go to school.

Perhaps she changed her name, or is married, or has passed away? P.Is don't have access to those types of documents. Your best route is to post an ad in the newspaper, in her last known city, asking for information on her whereabouts. Best of luck! As a P.I I can tell you that if the first investigator you hired could not complete the inquiry, I recommend hiring someone else. Best of luck!

I will be honest, if they don't want to be found, why not honor their wishes and let them just live their life.

Beyond that do you have their social security number,