My ex is with someone else and I decided SMSed for a bootycall one night after plenty of NC. She was reciprocating by telling me how good it would feel but she can't because apparently "It's not just the physical desire that she has." what does that mean?
Anyway I know everyone would tell me to leave her alone and stuff like that. I don't plan to call her again at all. In fact for what she did to me I can never even think about it. I just was wondering how she would reply and it didn't seem spiteful towards me at all. She was the one describing what she'd love to do if she could. Its also weird that her boyfriend who compliments her every move seems oblivious to her desires also. This is just a way to get her out of my system and I'm staying strong from here on in. by the way she's the one who betrayed me with the guy she's with right now. At the end of all this I wished her happiness because I can never look back.

Regardless of what the saying mean, the answer was no even though she might still be physically attracted to you. Be glad that you didn't open that flood gate anyway because it could have cause a bunch of other problems.

My ex husband's sister started seeing another man while she was still married. After she left her husband for this man, she proposed to her husband that they "cheat" on the new guy for the sexual excitement. Some people just like the excitement. Your ex might also have just been trying to get you to do exactly what you are doing now, thinking about her. Put her out of your mind!

It sounds like your ex has emotional issues and by issues I mean deep problems. Be glad you didn't get sucked into her trap.

She can't be with you because... "It's not just the physical desire that she has."

For you?

For him?