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  • Aug 22, 2008, 06:41 AM
    Myhearthasgone
    First date
    So I have got two guy friends who both like me(they are best friends).
    I just like one of them and he asked me out and I accepted. We won't tell the other guy that we hanged out. Are we going to do something wrong by not telling him?

    Now I'm going to hang out with this guy and my best friend[a girl] is coming. Should me and this guy still like go out together or just talk?

    Can somebody tell me where it is best to go. Should we go to a movie or to somewhere more peaceful?

    Does lightmakeup go for a first date and should I wear a shorts or a jeans?

    If you can help me I appreciate. Thanks :)
  • Aug 23, 2008, 06:51 PM
    help089
    Ok here's what you do wear jeans go to a movie so then afterwards you have something to talk about other than school n friends. Make-up wise wear it light never too heavy and maybe you should tell your other best friend that you and your other best friend are "hanging out", but tell him after your date because then you know what this guy is really like trust me it will work.

    Good Luck
  • Aug 24, 2008, 03:44 PM
    jrsg
    Tell the other guy
    Hopefully he will understand, and everything will be good.
    Unfortunately, it doesn't always work out that way, but he has to know.

    Good luck,
    Let us know how everything turns out
  • Aug 30, 2008, 06:49 AM
    Myhearthasgone
    It went OK =]
    I am just wandering what is the best position to kiss? Sitting or standing up?
  • Aug 30, 2008, 10:06 AM
    jrsg
    I'm glad everything went okay. It was a very tough and brave thing to do. Honesty is hard, but it usually works out for the better in the end. Now what is the best position to kiss? That is a common question for young teens... And just out of curiosity, if you don't mind me asking, how old are you?

    Don't feel pressured or anything like that. You don't HAVE to kiss. If you want to feel that kind of connection with him, and you think it would be nice, and woud help the relationship, then go ahead. But I think everybody likes kissing...

    So just do what feels comfortable and when it feels comfortable. When I first kissed my last girlfriend we were sitting down on a couch, and the moment just came. Nothing planned, just spontanious. The spontanious aspect of it was nice, because neither of us really expected it. Most guys will make the first move, so you could wait for him. If you don't want to, then just do it when it feels right.

    BUT, for the record, as a opinion, I prefer kissing sitting down, more comfortable :).
  • Aug 31, 2008, 12:24 AM
    Myhearthasgone
    I'm 14
  • Aug 31, 2008, 12:28 AM
    jrsg
    Ahh, I got into my first relationship at 14.
    Well, I hope everything works out for the best with you two.
    Good luck! And if you have any other questions, this site is the place to ask! :)

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