Originally Posted by ANB428
Okay, I found out that I was pregnant last week. I am now 6 weeks along. This was totally not planned and I was on birth control at the time I got pregnant. I already have a three year old. I am barely able to support her. I work two jobs and go to school full-time. The only way for me to pay my bills that I currently have is to work both of these jobs. I am really scared right now because I know that I am not going to be with the father of this child. I am not with my daughter's father either because he was a drug addict. The father of this child wants to be a part of this child's life and is willing to help me after the child is born.
My mom keeps telling me that I should have an abortion because I need to take care of the child that I already have and she doesn't know how I am going to do it with two children. She told me that she would support me on whatever decision I made though. (She lives in Texas by the way and I live in Alabama) I don't want to have an abortion. I don't want to kill my child. I am really scared though.
I don't know how I am going to pay my bills when I have to stop working my second job as I get further along. I also don't know what I am going to when I am about to have the baby and after the baby is born. I am not going to be able to work, so how am I going to be able to support my daughter? I have over $1500.00 a month in bills. I am really worried about this and I would like any advice that can be given to me. I don't believe in abortions and I want this child, I just don't know how I am going to do it by myself. I struggle so much already. I am planning on just finishing this semester of school and then going back next year after the baby is born.
I know that the father will help me after the child is born, but he told me that he wants me to have the baby and give it to him since I already have one and I am NOT going to do that. Is there any way that he can take the child from me after it is born?
Any advice would be greatly appreciated.