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  • Aug 21, 2008, 07:54 AM
    i m confused
    To live or to let go this life
    I am damn confused,, nothing seems working out... what shouls I do?
  • Aug 21, 2008, 08:15 AM
    N0help4u
    Work out all your current problems and get them finished up as much as possible.
    Figure out where you want to be and where you see yourself in years from now and work toward that. Don't complicate things with stuff that will side track you.
  • Aug 21, 2008, 08:33 AM
    StaticFX
    Seriously? Nothing is so bad that you should let go. If everything is really bad... there is only one way to go.. that's UP.
  • Aug 21, 2008, 04:04 PM
    Choux
    No one who is young should kill themselves.

    Much young misery and angst can be solved naturally and through talk as one ages. :)
  • Aug 21, 2008, 05:01 PM
    Fr_Chuck
    So things are badk today, or even this month, then change the way you are doing things, Have you looked into professional help.
  • Aug 21, 2008, 05:31 PM
    dce
    I agree that you should seek professional help. I tried to commit suicide and I now realize that wasn't the way to go. I am not going to lie and say that it's going to be an easy road, but it will be one that should be traveled. Don't give up!
  • Aug 21, 2008, 05:37 PM
    Helper_12
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by i m confused
    I am damn confused,,, nothing seems working out ... wht shouls i do??

    no do not let go of your life because god made a day for you to die and please don't kill yourself I'm sure you are a great person life is sometin to live not to let go if you kill yourself your going down not up:) :mad:
  • Aug 21, 2008, 11:41 PM
    Clough
    What specific things are bothering you, please? It would be helpful for us to know about those things in order for us to help you the best here.

    Thanks!
  • Aug 23, 2008, 10:22 PM
    Dragon72
    Believe me when I say that I fully understand what your thinking, I've walked that same road many times. However checking out of life by your own hand is not the answer. All that does is create more problems for the people you leave behind and care about you. Suicide is permanent solution to a temporary problem,no matter how big you think the problem is, it can and will be fixed if you want it to. It's not an easy road to travel but you're a better person in the end and have a much greater understanding and appreciation for life itself and that's speaking from experience.One last thing to wrap up here and it helped me get past some rough patches. I couldn't stand the thought that after I was gone some people would consider me a coward and a failure because I checked out before my time. And personally that's not how I wanted to be remembered or lose the respect of those that care. I could have never rested peacefully,ask yourself if you can and you will most likely answer your own question but be brutally honest with yourself and very serious think before you answer.

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