My ex left me. And yes I want him back. The new girlfriend doesn't seem right to me. For one she meant him on myspace less than a month after separating from her ex. A few days into talking to my ex she was trying to convince him to stop talking to me. She was so into him when he had a great paying job. He lost his job late January. Yes she still liked him but it didn't seem the same. It was almost like she was embarrassed. One day she told him she wasn't ready to be with anyone. He was asked to leave her alone. After a while she decided to talk to him again. A few weeks later she did it again. Same sob story. He told me that one of her exes called her on the middle of the night & she turned the phome down to talk. She lives about 45 minutes driving away from him. When she would go home some times she would disappear for hours.the last time they had sex was in late February. I think she was messing with her exes from then until May.She wouldn't even tell her mom about him and used that as another excuse to not talk anymore. In may he got a new good paying job and she then wanted to pursue a relationship again. This time telling her mom about him.she keeps trying to convince him to get over me. I feel like she is playing him, and/or cheating, and/or using him as a rebound. But he I'd real blind. What would you men do if you were him? Women what do you think she is doing?

Even if she is using him there is nothing you can do, he must not be concerned and isn't trying to leave so you have to let him just find out on his own.

He is a big boy, and its for him to deal with, and you would be better off backing out of this. I know you care, but its his life to learn from.

Why should you even care?

It does sounds like she's playing him but you're his ex. Even if you was to say something it might be taken as your jealous or you want him back. You should just back away from this situation and hopefully he will open his eyes and see her for what she truly is. What have you been doing with yourself since the break-up?

YES, she is definitely just one big fat gold digger. But unless your ex really values and will take your opinion to heart, then there may be nothing you can do about it. Try to let him know what you think - ONLY IF HE ASKS.

Just give up on it and live your life. WORRY ABOUT YOU... you are what matters now and not him. If he's getting played, that's his problem for letting it happen... like everyone else says, why should you care at all anyway?

I totally agree with what everyone else is saying. He's your ex. Let him figure it out and worry about yourself.