Doubts about my relationship
Hi all,
I need some help and advice! I am 22 years old and have been with my boyfriend since I was 17, he was my first boyfirend. He has always been very sure of his love for me and so have I at times. I did however have many doubts and anxieties over being with him in the beginning. I often worried that I should be out there and single, picking up guys like all my friends were. I often told him these doubts and as a result we often came close to breaking up but I could never bear to let him go. We have really grown together over the years and I love him so much. He's funny, smart, caring and very understanding, I really see a future for us. I have always had very little confidence and find it hard to tal to other guys and have friendships with them. I often blame the fact that I have been in a relationship for this and that I have never had a chance to run amok. Now I find that we have problems and my boyfriend has insecurities about me based on the problems I had in the past... is this something we can work through together or should I have listened to my doubts years ago and broken up with him?