My girlfriend asked me "what if I kissed a girl?"
My girlfriend who is in her 30's asked me a few weeks ago about how I would feel if she kissed a girl. At first I was like, well I guess if I get to watch, jokingly. Usual guy response. But seriously, I said well what if I kissed a guy, would you like that? She said no. I have absolutely no desire at all, drunk or sober to kiss another guy regardless of what he looks like. I love my girlfriend very much and she is very sexy to me, she is very outgoing and not the "princess" type. She tells me that she is in love with me all the time.
The other day I asked her again about it while we were completely sober. She said that if a girl was really hot, she wouldn't mind kissing another girl. It's been really bugging me lately and wondering if all of a sudden there is this need for experimentation and would rather know now than later. If a girl kisses a girl and likes it, what then? Wanting to experiment sexually? Is that cheating? What if I kissed a girl? What is the difference? I'm a little confused by this and wondering if other people have seen this before.
Not sure if I should just let this go or try to talk about it some more without getting her defensive about it.