I am now 2yrs away from a bad relationship of 4yrs which I found out 2006 he was a narcissist ! Could someone please explain to me, how they can be so cold & treat you like they never even met you? We were close friends for yrs , we had great times together, Now just yesterday I saw him, not since 2006 , a part of me wanted to talk to him ? Is that wrong, That he abused me for years I have to forget somehow ? This really bites.