Hi guys,

I been on here before and explained that my ex girlfriend finished me and kind of got with this other guy, since then she broke it off with him saying "he's just not u" and she then declared her love to me again and said she would do ANYTHING to get back with me! We met and it was cool, never kissed or anything and then for about two week she and I wer normally txting like we were dating! She has gone on a cruiseship at the moment and had 1 day of texts from her and when I asked if she was still interested she said she doesent know what she want as she is going to uni soon. Can anyone help in making sense of this? Should I give her an ultimatum or let her have time to wonder what she wants, but when she has had time... will it be too late?

Thanks

Seems we have been through this before, and didn't you learn from previous experience.

Come on guy, you can't keep putting your foot in a bear trap, and expect not to get hurt bad!

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I wouldn't take her back. My boyfriend and I have been together since high school and were now in our mid twenties (8 years) and we have argued and broken up but only for a day or two at a time and even though we have hated each other at some points we both still looked out for each other and always said I love you. The point is that if you guys kept breaking up and her going out with other guys and then that not working and her come crawling back to you then I think that your like a safe zone. She knows that your always going to be there even though she has been with other guys. In my opinion I wouldn't take her back because I see this as these things are always going to happen with her. Her finding someone new and getting rid of you until the new relationship didn't work then come back. I wouldn't but you're a different person than I am so do what you feel is right for you.