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  • Aug 17, 2008, 11:29 AM
    abhunt
    What are my options?
    :confused: I don't know how to deal with this issue? 7 years ago I got married to love of my life and as I was a medical professional I attached her to my papers to get her papers approved 2 years after our marriage she invited her sister who came and vistited us stayed for nice 2 months and then she found a fella to get married to to get her papers for money, she did this and got married, after her my wife invited her other 2 younger sister and brother who were teens at that time and for 4 years I took care of them sent them to school took care of them educated them now after 4 years the girl who will be 20 told my wife that from past 30 days she is been feeling uncomfortable that I like her it and that she wants to move out that my wife does not deserve man like me, I later found out that she had been working on her sisters ssn and collecting money to get married for papers as she is also talking to some friends of her and so will the brother who is still a teen looking forward to it, now my wife threatens to leave me and collect every single penny she deserves, I never did leave my gentleman's code of honour I always loved my wife and will love her to the end, but I feel I was used for good life and that my house has been harbouring paper seekers. I don't know how I got into this situation please tell me what are my options here. Who do I report to about these fake marriages that took place and that will take place.
  • Aug 17, 2008, 11:34 AM
    N0help4u
    As long as an of they stay with who they married and faithful to them there is nothing you can do to prove they are fake.
  • Aug 17, 2008, 11:47 AM
    abhunt
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by N0help4u
    As long as an of they stay with who they married and faithful to them there is nothing you can do to prove they are fake.

    But whole process is through an attorney and the divorce is planned at the end of 2 years
  • Aug 17, 2008, 11:50 AM
    N0help4u
    After all these years I don't know if she would be deported over a divorce or not
    But I was saying as far as her relatives marriages.
  • Aug 17, 2008, 12:03 PM
    abhunt
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by N0help4u
    After all these years I don't know if she would be deported over a divorce or not
    but I was saying as far as her relatives marriages.

    I also do not want my wife to get deported as she is been played with , all I am trying to find out is how the relatives who come here get married for papers once the papers come they divorce and move on with their life this is the whole process they have charges of how the money should be handled and every thing and latest is going to happen right in front of me girl is 20 guy is 30+ they have no clue about each other attorneys are involved in it they prep them. There has to be a way to stop them?
  • Aug 17, 2008, 12:08 PM
    N0help4u
    Oh I see now. I didn't see they were just marrying and turning around getting divorced.
    My guess is they don't put any more emphasis on this than they do with deporting illegal's that don't even bother with a marriage license.
  • Aug 17, 2008, 12:17 PM
    abhunt
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by N0help4u
    oh I see now. I didn't see they were just marrying and turning around getting divorced.
    My guess is they don't put any more emphasis on this than they do with deporting illegal's that don't even bother with a marriage license.

    So what can I do if it goes unnoticed this time more and more will get courage to pull this kind of stunt
  • Aug 17, 2008, 12:22 PM
    N0help4u
    All you really can do is report them to INS.
  • Aug 17, 2008, 12:56 PM
    lawanwadee
    I don't think you understand the whole process. At present US citizen can file petition for alien spouse only twice in a life time... not 4-5 times like it was years ago. Having "fun" with many guys is another story.

    Divorce before 2 years or after 2 years is not always the indication of marriage fraud. If the alien spouse entered marriage in good faith and has been victim of domestic abuses, he/she is eligible to file removal conditions on his/her own. As long as they live under the same roof, no one can prove that... but if they live separately, in different cities, different states, etc. then it is obvious.

    Anyway, there's always the other side of the coin... most cheaters always come up with I love my wife and will always love her... that's when she filed for a divorce or he got caught through any media.

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