Does My baby Father Have these Rights?
I am new to this site. I joined because I found many of the Q&A's helpful to me. Although I still have some concerns about my daughters father. Me and my 3 y.o. daughter live with my mom. I just recently put him on child support because he was not helping at all. Even though he has still yet to pay anything. He now lives with his girlfriend and they have a baby together (6 months). I get along with her and the baby. He does not even have a job, child support had to judge how much he will pay a month by assuming minimum wage. Him, his girl, and their baby come to my house all the time just so the kids can get to know each other since their sisters. Me and him don't talk at all to each other. My daughter hates when I make her spend time with him. I only do this because my father was not in my life and it wish he was. He is an alcoholic and drinks consistently everyday. When he asks me to let her spend the night, I tell him NO because all 3 of them share 1 room and my daughter will be so uncomfortable. He calls me sometimes but only to argue about why I don't ever tell him things about his daughter. For example, my mom is taking my daughter on vacation for 5 days to Florida, I cannot go because of work, and as soon as he found out he called me harassing me about why I didn't ask him if she could go, and now that he is paying child support he has the right, and I can't take her out of the state without his consent. and that he will take me to court because I am not giving him his rights as a father, and lets not forget that whenever he talks to me its always with curse words with fat B*tch and dumb ho*. But I let him see her whenever, he is even allowed in my house whenever despite the way he treats me. And he is moving to another state soon and always tells everyone that he is going to take her with him, and if not then spend summers down there. Can he do that? Just take my daughter whenever he wants to? Come in my house because his baby lives here? Take me to court so he can get her? I love my daughter so much and I just wish that he would leave us alone, but I don't know what to do. Can someone please help.