I been talking to this woman that I met Monday trying to see her merchadize that she brought.which you ask for my number cause she wanted something else and she gave me hers.. so we have only talked a couple of days and we have gotten personal way off from any business talk.now I usually wait at least a week while talking to her to give each other a chanc to know each other better before I ask her out.. the problem is that neither of us have a car but we do stay and the same area.I think she would like the idea of catching a bus on what suppose to be a date.I don't like the bus?so what can I do?what can we do?you think it would be too much to try to go over her house and watch a movie with her?

You compensate. Ask her out and invite her to somewhere within walking distance to you.
Her catching the bus TO you make it something extra special.

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Originally Posted by N0help4u

You compensate. Ask her out and invite her to somewhere within walking distance to you.
Her catching the bus TO you make it something extra special.

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What are great first date ideas to you.dates that could lead to an night to her house?I think dates like a movie takes the confrontation off each other.and it should be dates whee we are focused on each other right?then I cn go and for a kiss

Well if you want a night at her house then it sounds like maybe you should learn to deal with catching the bus or finding a ride. What is around your house to do? What is around her house to do?

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Originally Posted by N0help4u

Well if you want a night at her house then it sounds like maybe you should learn to deal with catching the bus or finding a ride. What is around your house to do? What is around her house to do?

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Nothing but a coney island.lol

Take her to coney enjoy the day and try to stay out late and try to go back oh prey she isn't reading this

Movies are terrible first dates imo, so yea do something where you can get to know each other... coffee, dinner, drinks, walk through the park, lots of options, if you build enough comfort with her then she might invite you over, maybe mention a movie that you meant to see in theatre that just came out on dvd

I always think a walk on the beach is so romantic sounding
But I heard N. J. beaches are like waste. Don't know how N.Y. is