Every so often my ex boyfriend ims me. But when he does its not just to talk he has to bring up something to try and get me jealous like, telling me about these girls he's hanging out with or how he's going to a party. And he always asks me if I have any guys in my life. 2 weeks ago I started hooking up with this kid who he's really jealous of. He found out and I think it made him mad. Then 2 weeks later he imed me to ask about him. I just don't get why he has to know about every guy in my life. He's the one that broke up with me and it was 4 months ago. Is he jealous or what is he doing?

Are you texting him back? Don't.

This guy does not suit u, he acted like child, leave him.

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Originally Posted by notbigthing

this guy does not suit u, he acted like child, leave him.

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He's her ex, she already left him, or he left her... they are broken up, period. Please read the post thoroughly before posting. Thank you.

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Originally Posted by notbigthing

this guy does not suit u, he acted like child, leave him.

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Already did leave him. A few months ago but he still wants to know when and if I have new guys in my life

Tell him to stop contacting you. Do not answer messages he sends you. You can't change his behavior, but you can ignore it, and not participate.

my ex does this as well.. he is the one that broke up with me.. This was about 9 months ago now yet he still gets jelous/txts me random stuff even though he knows I have a new boyfriend!I'm not sure what it is I guess some part of guys just always has a thing for the ex even though he might not have any intention of getting back together.. just ignore him.. thats what I do.. lol :)

Stop responding to his messages! If you don't like the mind games, then simply don't play

If your going be friends, then set limits. You don't have to tell him about your personal business regarding who you seeing where you been,etc. Also, you don't need to hear about his if you don't want too, if you don't. It does sound like he wants to make you jealous and knows how. Maybe remaining friends with him was not a good idea.

Tell him none of his business, and stop talking to him if all he wants is to be nosy. That's not what friends do, and if that's the best he can do, ignore him, and his games.

We aren't really friends though. We talked for 2 weeks maybe after we broke up but then I completely cut the contact because I wanted to move on with my life. Then he started with this jealous thing and I told him to stop telling me these things because its not making me jealous and I really don't care. So now when he talks to me he asks me about the guys in my life. And if I tell him I hooked up with someone he changes the subject right away because he just can't hear it. I just don't get why he's like this when he's the one that broke up with me

There is nothing to get, he just is. Stop taking his calls.