OK I'm 24, I never thought about it or worried about it until today I read this.. I'm uncircumcised. It s retract while flaccid( not hard ) so I can always clean it by pulling it back all the way.. so it's not a problem.. but when erect though. It doesn't retract all the way.. just to the middle of the head I'd say.. is that a problem ? I mean I can clean it and it doesn't effect my sex life so why try to stretch it ? Wouldn't it be OK to just let it be ? Because the only reason to pull it back is to clean it rite ? So I clean it when it's flaccid( not hard ).. so why stretch it when hard ?

There's no reason to stretch it when hard. If you keep clean then you are fine. I know that hurts when you pull the skin too much when hard.

Yea.. I mean is there any other reasons to pull your foreskin back other than cleaning? I can pull it back easily when I'm flaccid and clean it so.. does that mean I dun have to stretch it when hard ? And I'm normal?

Everything sounds normal to me.

Just our little secret, my boyfriend is also uncircumsized and hates his foreskin pulled back too much while hard. It's normal.

Thanks.. I was little freaked out.. people say its different with uncircumsized in sex though.. is that true ? If yes, better I hope! Ha ha.. because all the girls I ve been with.. they neva been with circumsized so.. they couldn't tell the difference.. and the american girl I'm dating rite now was a virgin so.. I'm sorry I'm not saying you have though.. just that question popped up in my head.

It's different... WAY better. But I think it has a lot to do with the fact that I am love with him, and love makes sex better. He knows what to do, if you know what I mean. But love makes it pleasurable far more than any other thing could.

I know what you mean, my girlfriend would say the same. She goes so crazy that sometimes I can't even believe how right I'm doing my work with her.. lolzz. Or she could be lying which I have to doubt because we really love each other and we wouldn't lie to each other about something like that I hope..

That's fantastic. I hope you got the answers you were looking for. Hopefully someone else will respond and giveyou some more info.

U been very helpful.. just wanted to make sure I'm normal.. coz I was little confused with people telling people to stretch because of tight foreskin.. thanks.. have a good one..

Thank you. Glad to hear.

Hi there!

If you do a search on this site, you'll see that this seems to be a fairly common question!

If it doesn't hurt, or affect your sex life, then don't let it worry you too much!

Just as a bit more info, your problem could be relative phimosis, and if it carrys on bothering you, (either physically or mentally) you should really go and speak to a doctor, or even better a urologist! I'm sure they'll put your mind at ease and talk you through any treatments!


One last thing, if you're 24, why is this in Child & Teen Health? Did you just select the wrong category? Ha ha!