I know - it sounds bad. I feel bad aobut it. My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 6 months, and we've both agreed that we won't last forever, and that we'd still be best friends when we broke up, and no hard feelings or hatred. Lately, I've been talking to this other guy, and have started to get feelings for him. I feel really bad about it. I've always kind of worn my heart on my sleeve, and fall for people easily. If my boyfriend and I break up, I won't go out with this new boy immediately, but I just don't want to develop a bad reputation.. I'm just going into high school, and want to have a good four years, but I don't want a reputation of "the girl who dumps boys for other guys and breaks hearts." I'm sure my current boyfriend would take the break up well, but I don't even know if I want to do it yet. I just don't know what to do.

Are you still happy with your boyfriend?

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Originally Posted by ylaira

Are you still happy with your bf?

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Well, kind of. I mean, when we are together I am pretty happy. But when we're apart, we don't communicate. And me and the other guy talk like, all the time.

The other guy is probably talking to you because he likes you and is pursuing you. If you were to go into a relationship with him, he would be the one talking less and there would just be another guy somewhere for you to mess things up with.

If you will think what people will say then, you won't be happy. Jumping into another relationship after another is better than semi-cheating. So break up with your current boyfriend since your halfhearted and entertain this "flirts".

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Originally Posted by ylaira

If you will think what people will say then, you wont be happy. Jumping into another relationship after another is better than semi-cheating. So break up with your current bf since ur halfhearted and entertain this "flirts".

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The other boy&i have agreed not to immediately date if me and my boyfriend break up. I don't know. I feel a lot better about it now, and am just going to wait for high school to start and do it in person, so he may understand better.