Hi again,
Its going great after all our history and after I posted last time with this one guy I have been seeing. The communication is much better, I have been making more of an effort and it seems to be paying off, as so is he. We see each other more regularly, about 3 times a week BUT I have a niggling thought in the back of mind and am not sure if I am just being silly and paranoid because everything else is good.
I am almost 40 with 3 teenage kids, my house is hectic and I am quite happy to go over to his nice quiet place or back to his and sleep over at the weekend after nights out as its only about 5 miles from me. However, this has become a bit of a habit and he never really offers to pick me up, I always seem to drive to him. At the moment its not bothering me too much as I don't feel it's a massive effort, but I know that if it carries on as 'routine' I am going to get paranoid that the only effort he really makes is arranging our social plans and putting his hand in his pocket. I am being silly, what do others think?
Thanks