OK so one of my friends (chloe) was also dating my other friend (justin). They have been dating dor approx. 3-4 months and he just broke up with her.

On the say day she came to me on Msn to talk about it, she was telling me how he broke up with her.( and at the time he didn't give her a reason)( like what person breaks up with someone without telling them why) so she was talking to me from around 10:00 pm till about 1:30 AM. All about how she is not deserving of anything and crying and putting herself down and pretty much greiving. And then the next day she asked me to hang out for some support so me and her where playing basketball and then justin and shante came and she looked at me with sadness and total anger in her eyes.

So later we talked again on Msn and all she was asking me questiona about her like( am I pretty and stuff).

I was so annoyed at the third day but I just didn't want to tell her f*** off because I was getting annoye.

And now she is like I'm glad about the break up and I was finnally happy,

Until she started to flirt with me even though I have a girlfriend. And she won't stop is there any advice to be given




By the way were all 13

I think you should buy her a gift.

Are you saying that your girlfriend was walking with Justin and saw you playing basketball with Chloe? Sounds like you are no more guilty than she is for hanging out with the opposite sex.
BUT you do not want to cause problems so have a talk with your girlfriend and tell her that she is talking to you to get over the hurt of her break up but you do not feel comfortable with it because you don't want anybody to get the wrong impression. Ask her for her advice on how she feels you should handle the situation and any input she has for helping Chloe. Then talk to her about if Chloe calls you would it be okay with your girlfriend if you tell her to call her or some other girl since they can probably relate to her about her break up than what a guy can.

And this is why we say that 13 yr olds are not emotionally ready to date. All this angst over a relationship of a few months?

I'm not dating chloe she is just a friend but justin was dating chloe

Stay away from this girl because she would only cause problems and do not buy her a gift, it will only make her like you more. Talk to her from a distance and no more I'm on msn. Let her find someone else because sh cross the lines.

And everyone one of our friends are saying she likes me
Bbut I'm not good with the signs

Well, are you saying that you like her only as a friend? If that's true just tell her that you really love her but you would be afraid to lose her friendship if you guys ever dated... because she means so much to you. A break up always messes w/ the friendship, (that's what my teen daughter tells all the dudes that ask her out when she's not interested.. so she doesn't hurt their feelings).

If you are interested in her you now know that she's interested in you because your friends are telling you. If you go for her won't your friend be pissed? I don't know "boy codes", but "girl codes" dictate that you cannot date an ex no matter what, till the girl is Completely over him. Even then it may be off limits. It's kind of complicated... Aren't there other cute girls in your school... date them! It's the safest way not to piss anyone off..

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Originally Posted by Mrcuddlesworth

ok so one of my friends (chloe) was also dating my other friend (justin). they have been dating dor approx. 3-4 months and he just broke up with her.

On the say day she came to me on Msn to talk about it, she was telling me how he broke up with her.( and at the time he didn't give her a reason)( like what person breaks up with someone without telling them why) so she was talking to me from around 10:00 pm till about 1:30 AM. all about how she is not deserving of anything and crying and putting herself down and pretty much greiving. and then the next day seh asked me to hang out for some support so me and her where playing basketball and then justin and shante came and she looked at me with sadness and total anger in her eyes.

so later we talked again on Msn and all she was asking me questiona about her like( am i pretty and stuff).

i was so annoyed at the third day but i just didnt want to tell her f*** off because i was getting annoye.

and now she is like im glad about the break up and i was finnally happy,

until she started to flirt with me even though i have a girlfriend. and she won't stop is there any advice to be given




By the way were all 13

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Wow... um let's see... I would tell her "hey look chloe I like you but not like that" and sit and talk with her

Idk man just stop talking to her and make sure she knows that you have a girlfriend and that you don't like her.

She knows that I really like her but I'm never going to ask her out (we've been close friends for 7 years) and I find it would be really akward amd sweetdee my friend justin said he doesn't care anymore

And I broke up with my girlfriend and she ahs been sending signs but I alny realie after