My daughter is 15 yrs old after being daddies little girl all these yrs her dad and I are splitting now he says he doesn't know whether she is his daughter or not.. What should I do?? This is clearly hurting my daughter we actually have 3 daughters and he is asking to test them all now any advice

Hello betrayed74

Please don't feel insulted, but it is important to know in this matter :

- why are you two splitting up?

- why does he ask to test his daughters? (besides you two splitting up).

- are you 100 % sure that all three girls are his daughters?

:)

Since it is already out in the open... if you know he is the father of all three, test... if you have any concern that he may not be, test as well... everyone has a right to know. The unfortunate part is that it was brought to the girls' attention. Undue hurt was caused due to someone else's anger... a sad reality in many divorces when parents' don't put their children first.

The damage his demand has caused to your daughters' image of him has already been done. I'd let him get the tests, as long as he pays for it out of his funds after the divorce settlement.

IF you were with any other guy at the time then you really should have them tested He is their dad at heart he should know though for sure but I suspect he is demanding a test now to try and hold it against you and/or figuring it will get out of some support he may be looking at paying.
IF you know there is no way you were with another guy and he IS the father then get her tested and have the attitude that you are going along with it just to appease him and nothing more NO doubt or anything negative on your part.