So I've been dating for like a week now were both 13, we've known each other for 3 years and love each other. Earlier Wednesday she left to churchill for a week. And lately I've been hanging with girl(my best friends) and I have a crush on all of them. And I want to know if this is cheating or something. Because I don't want to jepradise our relationship by staring at another girl while dating her. And I'm compeled to find out. I really love her and it makes me sad to think of other women while dating her. And I am also scared that she will find out tell my friends dump me and I also have like no friends. "???????"?"?"?"?"?"?"

You need to treat them just like you would if she was right there standing over your shoulder.
While technically just hanging out is not considered cheating you have to realize the way things get back to people and the way people take things can be totally different than any intent on your part -especially girlfriends. Just like rumors things have a way of being taken out of context and you do not want that to happen.
If you do happen to be around them go on about your feelings for your girlfriend and do not give any other impression-don't appear flirty or anything that would make her hurt or jealous.

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Originally Posted by Mrcuddlesworth

And I have a crush on all of them.

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"Mrcuddlesworth" you've mentioned in your question,that all the other girls you know
And think about are only that of a crush....

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I really love her and it makes me sad to think of other women while dating her.

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... That's because you realise that what you have with your girlfriend is NOT
A crush,but real LOVE :)

As long as you realise the difference between the two,& keep them separate,you'll
Be fine :)

Thanks I feel so much better

And I also have another question should I tell emma (my girlfriend) about the crushes or should I just keep it to myslef and follow your guy's advice

Telling her won't help you or her... You may think it will make you feel less guilty but it will only hurt you both...

Why would you want to tell her, What can she do with that information?

Simply put, No I don't think it should be mentioned.

Having a crush is not wrong but acting on it is, and it would not help if you told her.

OK thanks I will follow your guys advice
Thanks a whole lot