Originally Posted by kayla2274
Ok so I dated this boy for 2 years. We started dating our senior year of high school. He always partied and was with his friends, I actually met him at a party. Well when we met he was instantly obsessed with me but I wanted nothing to do with him. He would always ask me to hang out, call and text my phone nonstop, that kind of thing. So I finally started talking to him and although he is not that attractive he has an awesome personality. He just loved me so much, he would do absolutely anything in the world for me. After about 9 months of being together he went to VT for college for 6 months. We were kind of rocky while he was there but we made it threw. He then came home for a 6 month intership, but at that time I started school. So i would have school 8-4 everyday and he had work like 3-2 a.m. Our schedules conflicted so much and slowly we started drifing apart. I would call and text him and get nothing in response, he would always say he didnt have time, he had things to do. It was like complete role reversal. It went from him being so obsessed with me, to me being completely obsessed with him. During the 6 months that he was home, we fought a lot and at one point he even left me in a resturant parking lot! I found text messages to girls, they would even text him at 3 a.m. and hed say their just friends. Well after the day in the parking lot I told him i hated him, out of complete anger and i did apologize for it. But he wouldnt hear it, he was done. So we've been broken up for about 3 weeks, and he wont talk to me at all. He says he has no time but yet he has 2 days off a week and he goes out both days. i mean all im asking for his a hey whats up and he can't even do that. So one saturday I went to his house so we could talk, and he got really mad that I showed up, he just keeps calling me psycho. All because i want to talk and not lose the person i love? He smokes pot 5 out of 7 days a week, after work at 2 a.m. he meets up with his friends and does it too. So it makes me really upset when he says he doesnt have time to talk to me but he has time to smoke pot? Im just in complete shock because I never ever thought hed do this. When we talked he said we could be friends and see where it went from there but he said as of right now hes done. Over the last couple of weeks hes said a lot of hurtful things, like i dont love you anymore, i have no feelings, your annoying, your psycho, your bipolar. I dont know what to do anymore! i've stopped texting and calling, thinking maybe he'll miss me and text me but nothing at all! Its like he deleted me out of his life. I want him back so badly but i dont know what to do anymore, escpecially since he wont even talk to me or see me. He leaves to go back to school in 3 weeks for a year. So my time is limited to make this work. What should I do!
