My oldest son is wanting to move to his fathers' and I don't think it is a good idea.
My ex-husband has not been around for the last two years, until the last three months, since his own brothers wedding. I started by letting the 13 and 15 year old boys go with their father everyother weekend because I believed that they were old enough to know between good and bad. I have always encouraged them to love their father and told them that he will come around soon. Now that I have changed it legally, so my ex can have over night visits, since the judge took them away because of endangerment and inappropriate touching from one of his new wife's children. I know that I did encourage this meeting to take place but I am not convinced that it is a good idea to up and move after only three months. I would like him to finish out his school days here with me. My ex did ask to have the boys for 7/4/08 and my youngest went, while the older boy went to his grandparents. I ended up with a phone call from my son crying because his father took off gambling with his wife.