I am going to call him Bill Bill and I met eacheither 8 years ago and had a connection, he liked me and I liked him too. After, a short period we went out and I was drunk and I told me that I was in love with him and we had sex, We kept having sex for a long time. Like friends with benefits but he never expressed his feelings towards me. He was always looking for me. I thought than one day he would expressed his feelings and he never did. I got tired and after he left to another state I wrote him a letter expressing that. Two months later, he was dating some else. I moved on with my life and I got envolve with my boyfriend and after two years with my boyfriend I got pregnant. After four years this without being in contact bill and I recconected eacheither on "my space". Bill wanted to see me and expressed he was thinking about me. I told him I was pregnant and I was going to move with my boyfriend. Bill kept wanted to be with me for a least a year and I said no. after I left my boyfriend I called him and Bill had a girlfriend. Bill just left his girlfriend and call me. He being talking for a week now. Yesterday when I asked him why he doesn't come and visit me? He said that he is busy and don't really come here . (we leave an 1hr and he does have a car). I am so in love with me and I was going to tell him or maybe I should just leave him alone. Any advise please??

Just believe he's busy for now. If he kept saying the same thing for a year then you should start thinking again.

Considering your past experience with him, How I wish you will be sane enough not to take this person seriously and stop having contact with him.

It's romantic, I know, but this man likes you and enjoys the sex. He's not in love with you and you know that.

So, what do you want in your life and in your bed? A guy who likes you a lot, or a guy who is in love with you and wants you and only you forever?

I don't think you've met that second guy yet.

He's probably married and would not be able to explain the time