My husband and I had both had sex for long because he was abroad.He came around last December, he complaint that I could not turn him on. What do I do?could it be menupausal sign,because I'll be 40 next feb.

I think 40 is a wee-bit too early for menopause in most women. Were you wearing anything sexy? Did you set the mood? Were the kids out of the house? Was he really tired? Do you suspect an affair? A lot of questions here.

I think you need someone to talk to regarding your husband's rejection.

If he is in the military, perhaps there are arrangements for this kind of family problem?