How can I get back my ex girl friend without pushing her further away from me because I love her and I think we are meant to be.

I don't really know, unless you give me more details of what went wrong. Why is she your ex etc?

Its not a question of your love for her it's a question of her feeling the same way about you! No matter what you think if she doesn't feel the same way she won't come back! You should wait and see how she feels while moving on with your life and not bother or pester her.:cool: ;)

Yes - is she REALLY the love of your life?? OR, are you in love with the idea of a relationship? And not so much her. If she doesn't want to be with you, there isn't a lot you can do.

WHY did you break? Was there ANY lying, cheating, abuse?? If so - move on.

I know a lot about WIN-BACK. But 97% of the people screw it up. You have to follow my advice completely - but people always THINK - "Oh, if she only knew how I felt" - that NEVER works.

Answer my questions above and I might have some good advice.

Generally, if its broke, there is a good reason.

Try to figure out what pushed her away and tel lme about it.

Sweetface - I recently met a wonderful, terrific, Gorgeous, hell-of-a-woman. We're finding out about each other. She's really into this stuff as well. I really enjoy hanging out with her and we seem to talk and laugh an awful lot.

I don't know if I am an expert, but I study this stuff every day, Love reading books on it. I learn something new every day. I've been through a lot - kind of been there, done that. I have a large social group in Chicago and I see all the mistakes they make as well. My sister has gone through 2 marriages. I don't ever want to make the same mistakes again - I also want to help others.

I help guys more - guys don't study this stuff. It's ALL women talk about! Here is me talking to my friend - "Hey how's Trisha doing" - him "cool". That's about it for guys.

I plan to write a book for guys - it's NOT a players guide - it's NOT for 'nice guys'. It's for confident, good-guys who want MORE in a relationship

Do not let her have power over you like that. It takes two people to have a successful relationship. You cannot force someone to love you. I'm sorry but your best move is to move on with your life and only time will help you see what is ahead.