Hey I'm a 14 year old girl going to be 15 soon.and I still don't have a boyfriend.I'm not ugly or anything I'm quite pretty(people tell me) there are guys that like me but I don't know why I always turn them down.is something wrong with me :/ or am I just not ready to have a boyfriend cause I really want to have a boyfriend you know... :confused: :(

There is nothing wrong with you. You just want your first boyfriend to be kind of special and the guys that asked you before maybe aren't your type so just keep your head up and try flirting a little bit are approach the guys you like and ask them random questions about something like hey where'd you get you shoes and try the bump bump into them and so sorry are act like you know them from somewhere

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Originally Posted by askbeccab

try flirting a little bit are approach the guys you like and ask them random questions about something like hey where'd you get you shoes and try the bump bump into them and so sorry are act like you know them from somewhere

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This does not work as much as you would like. We guys are dumb. It may or may not get our attention, but we will probably not understand what it means.

Nothing wrong with you at all! You don't want a boyfriend and that is fine! You don't need to start dating until you feel ready- don't do it because your friends think you should or because somebody picks on you because you haven't had a boyfriend. When you feel ready it is the right time.

Heyy girl I'm 16, and I feel like I just kind of went through all that. Don't feel weird about not having a boyfriend. If you do end up going out with someone just because you want a boyfriend. Trust me... its just going to turn into unwanted drama. Try to get out more, meet new people, join clubs in school, I know that sounds really nerdy, but trust me it works. That's how I found my boyfriend and we've been together almost 6 months.
Your probably turning them down because even though your excited about them likeing you, you just can't really see yourself with them maybe outside of school, or they're just not the kind of person that your mom would like. I'm sure your beautiful, but trust me if people think your pretty now, in another year when you fill out, you'll have guys crawling all over you.
Don't rush into anything, your fine turning them down. Just wait until you find someone special

Not having a boyfriend doesn't define you... Take your time, grow up a little and have fun!

So you don't like the guys that ask you out... Oh well.. Move on! There are guys you might like, you just haven't found them yet!